Wong Sum-yi grew up in a happy and caring familyI grew up in a happy and caring family with my parents and older brother. My father really loved me; he always supported me no matter what I did, and he watched me take part in different activities and competitions. My dad also bought me many things. One time, I told him I wanted a camera. Instead of asking me why, he simply went and bought it for me.
My dad was kind and gentle. His passing away was the most difficult and unforgettable moment in my life.
I still remember the scene in hospital that particular day. While he looked sad, he was glad that I had visited him. Although he smiled and acknowledged my presence, his eyes told me that he was helpless.
I couldn’t help but notice the drastic changes my dad had gone through. Two months before, he had found out that he had pancreatic cancer. He travelled with my mum and, in the photos, he was full of energy and looked happy. Now, he looked entirely different.
When my dad died, my relatives grieved and wailed. I experienced a sudden emotional outburst – sorrow, regret, and lament. I was sad that he didn’t say anything to me before he passed away. My dad was always the one to take care of me. Now, I have to look after myself.
The video did not just let me express my thoughts on my father, it allowed me to channel my emotions in the right way, as I make my way in life without my beloved dad. I hope others will, after watching my video, treasure the time they spend with their parents before it is too late.
Unicef HK’s Make A Video competition gives young people a chance to express themselves. The project is co-organised by the Hong Kong Arts Centre’s IFVA, with support from Hang Seng Bank and Young Post. Check out the videos here. Email your feedback to [email protected]
The Make A Video Contest 2018 is now open for applications. This year, the theme is “The value we embrace”, which aims to encourage young people to embrace their values as they grow up. Details can be found here.