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How pets gave my dementia-afflicted mother affection, as well as a sense of purpose

It is known that keeping pets can support better mental health. In the case of dementia patients they also give them purpose and comfort

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Anthea Rowan’s late mother, Lala Stephen, cuddles the family pet Mr Purr. Research has shown owning or caring for a pet lowers the risk of developing dementia, improves the emotional state of adults who have the condition and may slow their rate of cognitive decline. Photo: Anthea Rowan
This is the 57th instalment in a series on dementia, including the research into its causes and treatment, advice for carers and stories of hope.

An acquaintance once asked, while my mother was alive and living with me, “Have you got her a toy cat yet?”

Reading my expression as one of incomprehension, she elaborated: “You know, a teddy-bear cat, something she can pet?”

A toy cat?

“My mother’s on her fourth,” she said. “She strokes them until their fur falls out. When they’re bald, we just buy her another one.”

The writer’s late mother strokes the family cat Mr Puss. Among adults already diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, pet ownership was found to have a positive effect on daily living function, mood and mental health. Photo: Anthea Rowan
The writer’s late mother strokes the family cat Mr Puss. Among adults already diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, pet ownership was found to have a positive effect on daily living function, mood and mental health. Photo: Anthea Rowan

I did not appreciate what she was talking about at the time. But as the months went on and dementia claimed more of my mother, I was able to see the potential value of a toy cat.

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