The Kashmir village that put an end to domestic violence by banning dowries
- The dowry system was made illegal across India in 1961, yet remains in widespread use, and disagreements over the payments often lead to violence
- In Kashmir, where women have been set on fire in dowry disputes, the traditional village of Baba Wayil has taken a stand
Nestled in the foothills of Gutlibagh, Kashmir, the hamlet of Baba Wayil offers its residents a simple, tranquil and traditional life.
Its one thousand or so villagers pass their time farming walnuts, trading Pashmina shawls and attending Friday prayers at the local mosque. Many have stayed all their lives in the community, which proudly traces its roots back 750 years to when the Sufi saint Syed Baba Abdul Razzaq arrived from Samarkand, Bukhara (modern day Baghdad) to preach and promote Islam. It was he who laid the foundation of Baba Wayil, later dying and being buried in the village that bears his name.
While tradition runs deep in Baba Wayil, the village is known locally for its modern stance against the payment of wedding dowries, an age-old social practice in which the bride’s family is expected to make payment to the groom’s.
The dowry system was made illegal across India in 1961, having been blamed for encouraging the oppression, torture and even murder of women, usually at the hands of the groom’s family in cases where the payment was deemed insufficient.