Across social media, a curious phrase has been circulating: “You met me at a very Chinese time in my life.” It appears under videos of hotpot dinners,
DHGate hauls, Chinese streetwear fits and users joking about switching their phone interfaces into Chinese “for the aesthetic”.
It has even spawned an ecosystem of spin-offs: “Chinamaxxing”, “you will turn Chinese tomorrow” and countless posts where people half-joke about
becoming “more Chinese” by the day.
But beneath the humour of what looks like yet another disposable internet trend sits something more revealing. The meme is not really about wanting to be Chinese. It is about how deeply global digital life is embedded in Chinese-built systems, and how comfortable many younger users are becoming with that.
The idea of the
meme predates the internet. The term was coined in 1976 by evolutionary biologist Richard Dawkins in
The Selfish Gene to describe how ideas replicate, mutate and spread through societies much like genes. Online meme culture is an accelerated version of this. Digital platforms compress what once took years into days, turning humour into a low-risk testing ground for emerging identities, anxieties and shifts in power.
Many memes begin as in-jokes within online subcultures before spreading as shared language for collective unease or recognition. In this sense, memes often act as early warning systems. They surface changes in power, identity and belonging before people are ready to address them directly. “A very Chinese time” functions less as cultural role-play and more as a form of subconscious recognition.
Users joke about becoming Chinese because their daily lives are increasingly shaped by Chinese platforms, products and infrastructure. It’s not just
TikTok.
RedNote influences global beauty and lifestyle trends.
Shein and
Temu have rewritten expectations around price and delivery speed.
DJI dominates the global drone market.
BYD rivals, even surpasses, Tesla.
