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Meet Karen Spencer, the soon-to-be-ex-wife of Charles Spencer, Princess Diana’s younger brother: the countess is originally from Canada, and was married to Hollywood producer Mark Gordon

Charles Spencer’s soon-to-be-ex-wife Karen Spencer is accusing him and his mistress Dr Cat Jarman of “bullying” her – but what do we know about the countess’ life before marrying into aristocracy? Photos: @karenspencer/Instagram; LinkedIn
Charles Spencer’s soon-to-be-ex-wife Karen Spencer is accusing him and his mistress Dr Cat Jarman of “bullying” her – but what do we know about the countess’ life before marrying into aristocracy? Photos: @karenspencer/Instagram; LinkedIn

The 9th Earl Spencer faces accusations of ending his 13-year marriage by text and bullying his wife with the help of his mistress, Dr Cat Jarman – but what do we know about the countess’ life?

Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer and younger brother of Princess Diana, is being accused of ending his 13-year marriage to Karen Spencer by text and then resorting to “bullying” her with the help of his mistress, Dr Cat Jarman, according to People magazine.

It all started with the alleged affair – Karen suspects their trysts began in 2021. In the course of investigating her husband’s relationship with Jarman, Karen found out about the other woman’s multiple sclerosis diagnosis – information she shared with her inner circle. Jarman, who had been keeping her condition under wraps to avoid prejudice, sued Spencer for disclosing private information without consent. The countess hit back in her filing, claiming her actions were “entirely justified and legitimate”, given she had just found out about her husband – with whom she has a 12-year-old daughter, Charlotte Diana – cheating on her.

Karen Spencer suspects her soon-to-be-ex-husband, Charles Spencer, had been having an affair with Dr Cat Jarman (above) since 2021. Photo: @catjarman/Instagram
Karen Spencer suspects her soon-to-be-ex-husband, Charles Spencer, had been having an affair with Dr Cat Jarman (above) since 2021. Photo: @catjarman/Instagram
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The Spencers announced their divorce in June last year, with the earl hiring King Charles’ former divorce lawyer, Baroness Shackleton of Belgravia, to represent him. He made his romance with Jarman public in October 2024, but denied their affair in a more recent interview with the Daily Mail.
So just who is Karen Spencer, Countess Spencer? Here’s what to know.

Karen Spencer’s background

Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer, and Karen Spencer, Countess Spencer, arrive at the wedding of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle in May 2018, at Britain’s Windsor Castle. Photo: Getty Images
Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer, and Karen Spencer, Countess Spencer, arrive at the wedding of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle in May 2018, at Britain’s Windsor Castle. Photo: Getty Images

Karen Spencer was born in June 1972 in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. Growing up, she moved house 22 times and attended 10 different schools, due to her father’s career as a national parks administrator, per Forbes. She grew up with two younger siblings and went to college in Toronto, but dropped out to launch a modelling career.

She’s been married before

Earl Charles Spencer and his then-heavily pregnant wife Karen Spencer at the wedding of Emily McCorquodale and James Hutt in 2012, in Grantham, England. Photo: Getty Images
Earl Charles Spencer and his then-heavily pregnant wife Karen Spencer at the wedding of Emily McCorquodale and James Hutt in 2012, in Grantham, England. Photo: Getty Images
Karen Spencer was previously married to renowned Hollywood producer Mark Gordon, who helped produce Saving Private Ryan (1998) and the popular TV medical drama Grey’s Anatomy. The pair met while she was working at the Four Seasons Hotel in Toronto as a receptionist. The couple had two daughters and divorced in 2003.