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Lisa Lim

Language Matters | After Netflix’s Adolescence, incels, the manosphere, negging and the 80/20 rule explained

The Netflix TV series introduced many to the language of toxic masculinity, from incel to red pills and blue pills. But misogyny is not new

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Owen Cooper as Jamie Miller in Adolescence. The Netflix limited series introduced viewers to the language of contemporary toxic masculinity. Photo: courtesy of Netflix

Few who watched the recent four-part crime drama Adolescence on Netflix would have remained unmoved – whether by the powerful acting, the one-shot episodes, the tragedy of a teen murder, or the disturbing attitudes embodied in language.

Many delved further – the terms “manosphere” and “incel” saw a spike in online searches following the show’s release.

“Manosphere” combines “man-” with “-sphere” to refer to a particular area of interest and the people associated with it, the word modelled after the coinage “blogosphere”.

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It comprises a conglomerate of groups and communities that create, consume and distribute content online aimed at men and boys that is regarded collectively as promoting ultraconservative models of masculinity and espousing anti-feminist views, typically involving misogyny and associated with far-right ideologies.
Ashley Walters and Faye Marsay (centre) play police detectives investigating a schoolgirl’s death in Adolescence. Photo: Netflix via AP
Ashley Walters and Faye Marsay (centre) play police detectives investigating a schoolgirl’s death in Adolescence. Photo: Netflix via AP

While the term emerged online in 2009, the manosphere’s broader ideology has deep roots in 1970s movements advocating men’s rights, a backlash to feminism. Major manosphere communities include:

  • “Men’s Rights Activists” (MRAs), who advocate political changes to benefit men; their activism, however, consists of harassment and abuse of feminists and other female public figures.

  • “Men Going Their Own Way” (MGTOW), whose members hold that society is rigged against men and a system it is impossible to change, hence they advocate abstaining from relationships with women.

  • “Incels” – a portmanteau of “involuntary celibate” and a word originally popularised in the 1990s by a woman’s website – now encompasses the online subculture of young men who are frustrated by their lack of sexual experience, for which they blame women.

  • “Pick-Up Artists” (PUAs) are built around “game” – that is, techniques, strategies and mindsets that help men be more successful in attracting women. Many of these involve objectifying women and promoting harassment techniques, most notably “negging”.

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