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Book review: The Book of Human Emotions is an exercise in managing slight frustration

Tiffany Watt Smith skips through her history of feelings, throwing out references to art, philosophy and literature, but doesn't quite satisfy the curiosity she stokes

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Children from the Baining tribe of Papua New Guinea, which is credited with giving a name to the feeling of emptiness we experience when guests depart. Photo: Corbis
Ben Richardson

You sent out the email two weeks ago for the Big Event. Forty-six friends. Too crass to ask for an RSVP. It's just a housewarming; not a wedding. Nobody replied. The invite said 8ish and it's 8.04. You check your email and your phone; you peek through the spyhole in the door; you listen for the lift.

You're in the grip of iktsuarpok, the Inuit term for the fidgety anxiety felt before the expected arrival of visitors.

Torschlusspanik (German for "gate-closing-panic") might set in when the guests start arriving and you realise you've forgotten to add a drizzle of balsamic vinegar to your signature canapes. But as the night turns into a blazing success, you may feel exuberance. If you're a speaker of Welsh, you'd call this hwyl - literally a boat's sail. Basorexia - a sudden urge to kiss someone - may grip you.

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