Hong Kong’s education system should teach children how to be diplomats

Kelly Yang says soft skills such as empathy and tact are essential for children’s post-automation employment, as well as for teaching them how they (and their countries) should work together

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School students need to learn more than facts and figures to be employable in an automated world; they need to learn to relate to others. Photo: Shutterstock

Published: 3:00pm, 3 Dec 2017Updated: 7:01pm, 3 Dec 2017

I recently had to speak on the state of Hong Kong education to a group of Year 13s. I was dreading it, because, where do I start? I’ve been teaching in Hong Kong for the past 12 years – and the one thing every student needs is more empathy.

In an increasingly hostile world, it is the most important skill we can give kids. Empathy is the ability to look at something from another person’s perspective before opening one’s mouth (or Gmail) and ranting. It’s the ability to deal with people in a sensitive way, and it’s lacking the world over, especially in Hong Kong.

At its heart, diplomacy is about listening before reacting and knowing how to control your impulses. A lot of people equate anger with power (just look at the US election). In debating, we often talk about delivering powerful rebuttals. But real life is rarely about slamming the opponent. It’s about compromise, teamwork and the ability to get along with others.

Children dress in a variety of professional outfits at the Airport Preschool Opening Ceremony at the Airport World Trade Centre in March. Photo: K.Y. Cheng